Parenting and Caring

becoming a parent or career

types of parents and careers

Biolgical Parent:
one who contributes genetic material as a result of a sexual intercourse or assisted reproduction technologies

  • Social parents
    FASS
  • Careers

step-parenting- man or women who marries or a in defacto relationship with a partner who has child or children from a previous relationship.

surrogacy- arrangement between a couple who cannot have a baby and a women gets pregnant on the couples behalf;the child is handed on to the couple after delivery

primary- a person who provides the most informal assistance, hep or supervision to a person with one or more disabilities or who is aged 60 years and over

informal- a person, such as a family member, friend or neighbour, giving regular, ongoing assistance to another person without payment. e.g. grandmother who cares for granddaughter.

ICSI- single sperm is injected directly into a egg inside the women Fallopian tubes

adoption- legal process where all rights and responsibilities are transferred from birth parents to adoptive parents.


fostering- alternative living arrangement for children, parents are unable to care for them in the family home

GIFT- the sperm and eggs are removed and placed in to the Fallopian types where fertilisation will hopefully take place

IVF- process of fertilising eggs with sperm outside of human body

formal- trained professionals, formal agencies or institutions paid for by the receiver. e.g. aged carer, nurse, palliative carer etc

the roles of parents a carers
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Satisfying the specific needs (SHESEA)

  • adequate standard of living
  • parents expected to provide fodd, clothing(clean) and shelter (safety and security)
  • encourage healthy habits e.g. hydration
  • assist with hygiene via physical assistance or promoting
  • care for medical health needs
  • education should be provided and assisting in the encouragement in further education.

Building a positive relationship with the dependant

  • Realtionship where both grow as a result of the interaction
  • Can occur form birth through love and affection
  • Parents provide opportunities for dependants to develop independence and resilience
  • Model appropriate behaviour
  • Carers can help by providing assistance when needed but still allowing for independance
  • It can be difficult when the dependant used to be of equal higher status
  • cognitive, social, emotional & childern naturally observe = learn

Promoting the well being of the dependant

  • Well being affected by how well needs are met
  • Parents and carers should provide opportunities to develop and support positive
  • Good role modelling healthy behaviours that result in a sense of well being e.g. parents are role models of their children
    well being
    Social
    Physical
    Emotional
    Economic
    Cultural
    Spirtual

preparations for becoming a parent or carer
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Changing health behaviours
e.g. nutrition, physical activity, social or spiritual connection.
Parent

  • eat healthier, nutritious foods avoiding listeria bacteria
  • drink 2L of water a day
  • increase folic acid intake
  • attend prenatal classes
  • practicing relaxation techniques
    -participating in regular low impact activities

Carers

  • eating a variety of healthy foods
  • engaing in physical activity
  • investigationg local support groups
  • meeting with other carers
  • engaging in relaxtion techniques

Organising finances
e.g. budgeting, saving, support payments
Parent

  • budgeting and saving
  • investigate potential costs such as an obstetrician, hospitalisation, medical expenses, equipment, clothing, nappies etc
  • saving to cater time off work

Carers

  • budgeting and saving
  • potential costs of modifying the environment, education & training, specialised equipment, etc
  • savings time off work

Moving the physical environment
e.g. housing, amenities, equipment
Parent

  • moving from one bedroom house to a larger 3-3 bedroom
  • adding change facillities creating safe play areas
  • rails, ramps, non-slip for aged individuals
  • Cots, baths, safety gates, highchairs for babies

Carers

  • prepare their living arrganements to suit the carer for depenfdant
  • find place to safely store wheelchairs, walking frames and other specialised equipment

Enhancing knowledge and skills e,g, eduaction, information, training
Parent

  • education and trainig can begin with prenatal and postnaltal
  • information can be gained from sources from reptable professionals
  • magazines( Practical parenting)
  • websites (Raising Children Network)
  • important to use reliable sources
  • be aware of inaccurate media

Carer

  • informal carers may take online course or workshop
  • university degrees on nursing, early childhood & aged care

factors affecting the roles of parents and carers

characteristics of dependant

Age

  • emotional- young person may not have maturity to become parent or carer
  • physical- strain on the body
  • financial- may need assistance
    (formal=govt or informal= family)
  • The relationship between a parent and care can be influenced by age gap.
    smaller=friendship
  • older parent will have more experience and may cope emotionally. May have physical issues-infertility and back issues



Skills & Capabilities

  • Age- gain new skills to help assist in carer
    e.g older child my develop skills around the home to assist their carers with house work

Special Needs

  • medical, intellectual, physical disability require extra assistance from their parents.
  • children with additional needs ere met.

Influences on parents and carers

Personal
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Own Upbrininging

  • Parents and cares own upbringing will influence aspects of their own parenting style
  • Negative experience may result in caring differently or opposite to own cares e.g a parent who experienced violence may vow to never get into that type of situation as a parent

Religion/ Spirituality

  • impact on personal well being/ upbringing.
  • gain a code or a way of life based on morality

Previous Experience

  • influence parent or carer for subsequent dependents
  • A parent may feel very unprepared when having first child. This will feel very different when having a second as they will have more experience

Culture, Customs & Traditions

  • impact child upbringing
  • entail specific customs & traditions can be very influential e.g.

Multiple Commitments

  • Parents and carers are typically committed to family, work, sport, leisure and socialise.
  • Developing a balance & planning how much time to spend on these areas can be hard impacting well being of you and dependants

Education

  • Educated people have more knowledge & understanding of parenting and caring values & responsibilities.
  • more aware of services available & how to access them
  • e.g, one parent more educated then other, may lead to resentment & poor communication between parents

Socioeconomic status

  • a person or families social and economic position in comparision withh other individuals & famalies.
  • impacts on how they form relationships with both dependents and others
  • SES= income, education, occupation

Special needs

  • learn to cope with their dependants disability & change their life according to cater for their needs
  • parents & carers seek emotional assistance to support negative impacts of caring for a person with a disability.

Social
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styles of parenting & caring

Media stereotypes

  • Advertising often depict females in nursing/ caring jobs & males in trade & corporate roles
  • +Media has enabled carers and dependent to access financial support, which makes the caring role easier & allows stronger bond with dependent.

Community Attitudes

  • 'norms' of the area
  • vaccinations are another topic of question that creates hostillity between parents with different opionions
  • +Dependants should recieve care based on priority and cirumstancesi.e.
  • government funding should be directed towards health, childcare etc not enough is provided ( carer numbers insufficient)

Gender Expectations

  • A child's concept of being 'male' or 'female' comes from the observing their parents and carers behaviour
  • Flexibility in gender roles leads to less conflict & greater cooperation in parenting & caring
  • More females than males in caring industry- nursing , gender role this reinforces that females are more nurturing & 'belong' in caring role

Indulgent/ permissive

  • Indulge( give and spoil) children /dependants in a way similar to buying love ans being excessively lenient.
  • +The child will be given anything they need or want, easier for parent to feel loved by children- vise versa, promoting emotional well being
  • -The child will not, develop any skills they need to succeed later in life i.e self-management, saving money not over indulging themselves, may be determental to social or physical well being

Democratic

  • Allows, children / dependants to put in their opinion & views before a decision is made
  • +Dependant feels as though their well being is actually being considered, given a voice, cared for, boosting physical and emotional well being
  • -Dependants may think they have a voice in every decision

Negligent

  • Lacking in supporting the basic needs of dependent ( clothing, shelter, food or safety) result in child/ dependants well being.
  • +Teaching their children to be more independent & authoritarian over their own life, boost to social & physical well being once they have learnt to do it.


  • -Feel insignificant & worthless like they don't matter, cause poor physical, emotional, social well being.

Authoritarian

  • Demanding & inflexible, only caring about one opinion, have own ideas about how to parent & will stick to these no matter what
  • +i.e. a social worker with a foster child who has a rough case, make it easier to have the child submit to behaving & lead better life. Improve social,economic, emotional & physical well being '
  • -Dependant may feel like they have no voice & not valued as a person, cause a decline emotional well being in the dependant

rights & responsibilities in parenting & caring

Responsibilities

Legal rights

Carers

  • receive financial assistance, centre link, family & community services
  • request flexible work arrangements
  • act as an advocate for dependant when required

Children

  • autonomy of children- right to make decisions
  • medical treatment- over the age of 14 make own decisions
  • inheritance- children have no absolute right to inherit their parents property after death
  • claim law provisions

Dependants

  • participate in decisions
  • be protected from neglect and abuse
  • be part of the community
  • receive services e.g. medical support

Parents

  • discipline the child through
  • ensure access to education
  • attend the child's medical treatment( up to age 14)
  • take legal proceedings on child's behalf
  • determine a child's upbringing regarding daily care & control

Setting Limits

  • Every dependants right to have firm guidelines & limits, know what of expected of them
  • learn about fairness
    -respect others
  • foster their self esteem

Discipline

  • Parents & carers should establish clear rules & practise discipline that is understood by their dependants

Duty of Care

  • Legal right that society that parents& carers are the individuals who must meet the needs and well being of their dependants and

support for parents & carers

types of support

informal

  • relatives, friends, neighbours

formal

  • government agencies i.e. Centrelink, Family and Community Services
  • community organisations i.e. Salvation Army, The Smiths Family

types of services provided through formal support

childcare

  • preschools, kindergarten, long daycare, occasional care, family day care, vacation care

respite care

  • hospital, aged care facillity, day centre, ependants home

financial support

  • Government (centrelink)
  • Welfare Agencies

counselling

  • Unifam Counselling NSW
  • Relationships Australia. Parent line, Tersillian, Karitane, Catholic care

education

  • Australian Breastfeeding Association
  • Australian Multiple birth association
  • Fostering NSW
  • Australian Department of Social Services
  • Carers Australia
  • Karitane
  • Tersillian

health care

  • family, doctor, obstetrician, midwife, paediatrician. nurse,