Parenting and Caring
becoming a parent or career
types of parents and careers
Biolgical Parent:
one who contributes genetic material as a result of a sexual intercourse or assisted reproduction technologies
- Social parents
FASS
- Careers
step-parenting- man or women who marries or a in defacto relationship with a partner who has child or children from a previous relationship.
surrogacy- arrangement between a couple who cannot have a baby and a women gets pregnant on the couples behalf;the child is handed on to the couple after delivery
primary- a person who provides the most informal assistance, hep or supervision to a person with one or more disabilities or who is aged 60 years and over
informal- a person, such as a family member, friend or neighbour, giving regular, ongoing assistance to another person without payment. e.g. grandmother who cares for granddaughter.
ICSI- single sperm is injected directly into a egg inside the women Fallopian tubes
adoption- legal process where all rights and responsibilities are transferred from birth parents to adoptive parents.
fostering- alternative living arrangement for children, parents are unable to care for them in the family home
GIFT- the sperm and eggs are removed and placed in to the Fallopian types where fertilisation will hopefully take place
IVF- process of fertilising eggs with sperm outside of human body
formal- trained professionals, formal agencies or institutions paid for by the receiver. e.g. aged carer, nurse, palliative carer etc
the roles of parents a carers
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Satisfying the specific needs (SHESEA)
- adequate standard of living
- parents expected to provide fodd, clothing(clean) and shelter (safety and security)
- encourage healthy habits e.g. hydration
- assist with hygiene via physical assistance or promoting
- care for medical health needs
- education should be provided and assisting in the encouragement in further education.
Building a positive relationship with the dependant
- Realtionship where both grow as a result of the interaction
- Can occur form birth through love and affection
- Parents provide opportunities for dependants to develop independence and resilience
- Model appropriate behaviour
- Carers can help by providing assistance when needed but still allowing for independance
- It can be difficult when the dependant used to be of equal higher status
- cognitive, social, emotional & childern naturally observe = learn
Promoting the well being of the dependant
- Well being affected by how well needs are met
- Parents and carers should provide opportunities to develop and support positive
- Good role modelling healthy behaviours that result in a sense of well being e.g. parents are role models of their children
well being
Social
Physical
Emotional
Economic
Cultural
Spirtual
preparations for becoming a parent or carer
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Changing health behaviours
e.g. nutrition, physical activity, social or spiritual connection.
Parent
- eat healthier, nutritious foods avoiding listeria bacteria
- drink 2L of water a day
- increase folic acid intake
- attend prenatal classes
- practicing relaxation techniques
-participating in regular low impact activities
Carers
- eating a variety of healthy foods
- engaing in physical activity
- investigationg local support groups
- meeting with other carers
- engaging in relaxtion techniques
Organising finances
e.g. budgeting, saving, support payments
Parent
- budgeting and saving
- investigate potential costs such as an obstetrician, hospitalisation, medical expenses, equipment, clothing, nappies etc
- saving to cater time off work
Carers
- budgeting and saving
- potential costs of modifying the environment, education & training, specialised equipment, etc
- savings time off work
Moving the physical environment
e.g. housing, amenities, equipment
Parent
- moving from one bedroom house to a larger 3-3 bedroom
- adding change facillities creating safe play areas
- rails, ramps, non-slip for aged individuals
- Cots, baths, safety gates, highchairs for babies
Carers
- prepare their living arrganements to suit the carer for depenfdant
- find place to safely store wheelchairs, walking frames and other specialised equipment
Enhancing knowledge and skills e,g, eduaction, information, training
Parent
- education and trainig can begin with prenatal and postnaltal
- information can be gained from sources from reptable professionals
- magazines( Practical parenting)
- websites (Raising Children Network)
- important to use reliable sources
- be aware of inaccurate media
Carer
- informal carers may take online course or workshop
- university degrees on nursing, early childhood & aged care
factors affecting the roles of parents and carers
characteristics of dependant
Age
- emotional- young person may not have maturity to become parent or carer
- physical- strain on the body
- financial- may need assistance
(formal=govt or informal= family) - The relationship between a parent and care can be influenced by age gap.
smaller=friendship - older parent will have more experience and may cope emotionally. May have physical issues-infertility and back issues
Skills & Capabilities
- Age- gain new skills to help assist in carer
e.g older child my develop skills around the home to assist their carers with house work
Special Needs
- medical, intellectual, physical disability require extra assistance from their parents.
- children with additional needs ere met.
Influences on parents and carers
Personal
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Own Upbrininging
- Parents and cares own upbringing will influence aspects of their own parenting style
- Negative experience may result in caring differently or opposite to own cares e.g a parent who experienced violence may vow to never get into that type of situation as a parent
Religion/ Spirituality
- impact on personal well being/ upbringing.
- gain a code or a way of life based on morality
Previous Experience
- influence parent or carer for subsequent dependents
- A parent may feel very unprepared when having first child. This will feel very different when having a second as they will have more experience
Culture, Customs & Traditions
- impact child upbringing
- entail specific customs & traditions can be very influential e.g.
Multiple Commitments
- Parents and carers are typically committed to family, work, sport, leisure and socialise.
- Developing a balance & planning how much time to spend on these areas can be hard impacting well being of you and dependants
Education
- Educated people have more knowledge & understanding of parenting and caring values & responsibilities.
- more aware of services available & how to access them
- e.g, one parent more educated then other, may lead to resentment & poor communication between parents
Socioeconomic status
- a person or families social and economic position in comparision withh other individuals & famalies.
- impacts on how they form relationships with both dependents and others
- SES= income, education, occupation
Special needs
- learn to cope with their dependants disability & change their life according to cater for their needs
- parents & carers seek emotional assistance to support negative impacts of caring for a person with a disability.
Social
MCG
styles of parenting & caring
Media stereotypes
- Advertising often depict females in nursing/ caring jobs & males in trade & corporate roles
- +Media has enabled carers and dependent to access financial support, which makes the caring role easier & allows stronger bond with dependent.
Community Attitudes
- 'norms' of the area
- vaccinations are another topic of question that creates hostillity between parents with different opionions
- +Dependants should recieve care based on priority and cirumstancesi.e.
- government funding should be directed towards health, childcare etc not enough is provided ( carer numbers insufficient)
Gender Expectations
- A child's concept of being 'male' or 'female' comes from the observing their parents and carers behaviour
- Flexibility in gender roles leads to less conflict & greater cooperation in parenting & caring
- More females than males in caring industry- nursing , gender role this reinforces that females are more nurturing & 'belong' in caring role
Indulgent/ permissive
- Indulge( give and spoil) children /dependants in a way similar to buying love ans being excessively lenient.
- +The child will be given anything they need or want, easier for parent to feel loved by children- vise versa, promoting emotional well being
- -The child will not, develop any skills they need to succeed later in life i.e self-management, saving money not over indulging themselves, may be determental to social or physical well being
Democratic
- Allows, children / dependants to put in their opinion & views before a decision is made
- +Dependant feels as though their well being is actually being considered, given a voice, cared for, boosting physical and emotional well being
- -Dependants may think they have a voice in every decision
Negligent
- Lacking in supporting the basic needs of dependent ( clothing, shelter, food or safety) result in child/ dependants well being.
+Teaching their children to be more independent & authoritarian over their own life, boost to social & physical well being once they have learnt to do it.
-Feel insignificant & worthless like they don't matter, cause poor physical, emotional, social well being.
Authoritarian
- Demanding & inflexible, only caring about one opinion, have own ideas about how to parent & will stick to these no matter what
- +i.e. a social worker with a foster child who has a rough case, make it easier to have the child submit to behaving & lead better life. Improve social,economic, emotional & physical well being '
- -Dependant may feel like they have no voice & not valued as a person, cause a decline emotional well being in the dependant
rights & responsibilities in parenting & caring
Responsibilities
Legal rights
Carers
- receive financial assistance, centre link, family & community services
- request flexible work arrangements
- act as an advocate for dependant when required
Children
- autonomy of children- right to make decisions
- medical treatment- over the age of 14 make own decisions
- inheritance- children have no absolute right to inherit their parents property after death
- claim law provisions
Dependants
- participate in decisions
- be protected from neglect and abuse
- be part of the community
- receive services e.g. medical support
Parents
- discipline the child through
- ensure access to education
- attend the child's medical treatment( up to age 14)
- take legal proceedings on child's behalf
- determine a child's upbringing regarding daily care & control
Setting Limits
- Every dependants right to have firm guidelines & limits, know what of expected of them
- learn about fairness
-respect others - foster their self esteem
Discipline
- Parents & carers should establish clear rules & practise discipline that is understood by their dependants
Duty of Care
- Legal right that society that parents& carers are the individuals who must meet the needs and well being of their dependants and
support for parents & carers
types of support
informal
- relatives, friends, neighbours
formal
- government agencies i.e. Centrelink, Family and Community Services
- community organisations i.e. Salvation Army, The Smiths Family
types of services provided through formal support
childcare
- preschools, kindergarten, long daycare, occasional care, family day care, vacation care
respite care
- hospital, aged care facillity, day centre, ependants home
financial support
- Government (centrelink)
- Welfare Agencies
counselling
- Unifam Counselling NSW
- Relationships Australia. Parent line, Tersillian, Karitane, Catholic care
education
- Australian Breastfeeding Association
- Australian Multiple birth association
- Fostering NSW
- Australian Department of Social Services
- Carers Australia
- Karitane
- Tersillian
health care
- family, doctor, obstetrician, midwife, paediatrician. nurse,