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Difficult Conversations (Have an opinion (Express it (People respect it,…

- - - - Not a saint
      - Stay honest about intentions
    - - Can hold an alternative truth
      - Don't assume
        
        Stay open
        
        Avoid any judgement
      - Don't guess intentions
      - Don't judge them harsher than yourself
    - - Think about contributions
        
        Yours
        
        Actions prior
        
        Attitude
        
        Theirs
      - Switches people off
      - Results in a defensive response
    - - Can be both good and bad at same time
        
        Yours
        
        Theirs
  - - - Only idiots pretend they don't feel
      - Don't use as a weapon
      - Use "I feel..."
  - - - Core to self identity
        
        Competent
        
        Good at what you do
        
        Worthy of love/praise
      - Try to avoid getting defensive
    - - Think about weaknesses before hand
      - Ok to take a break
- - - - Make time
      - Deep dive
- - - - Ok to call people out