Emotional Dependency drives a set of rules within me (expectations) on how people are supposed to be(have) – They reveal Why I need you, Why I want you, What I expect of you - My list of 'shoulds' and 'demands' (Therefore I need Emotional Sobriety!)
Make feel safe
Make me feel useful
Make me feel wanted
Make me feel worthy
See my point of view
Recognise my effort
Dont betray me
Dont let me down
Hear me
Listen to me
Show me how
Be patient
Be proud of me
Dont judge me
Dont hurt me
Dont criticise me
Read my mind!
Agree with me
See it from my perspective
Know how I feel
Like me
Need me
Want me
Your approval
Trust me
Depend on me
Find me attractive
To be there for me
To care for me
To care about me
To be interested in me
To know....
To love me
To tell me its okay
To tell me Im okay