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Becoming a Man - Lesson 1 (Three Qualities of Manhood (Strength (One that…
Becoming a Man - Lesson 1
What Allah says in the Qur'an
"There are
men
among the believers
who have honoured their pledge to God
..."
It means that a man is a person who is true to his word وفى
In the face of anything that came their way
"
Men
are those who are
not distracted
, either by commerce or profit, from
remembering
Allah, keeping up the
prayer
, and paying the
zakat
,
fearing
a day when hearts and eyes will turn over." [24:37]
Men
take life
seriously
. They
want
to grow up
Common view of what a man is
Acquired responsibilities that comes with adulthood
Women
Money
Material things
Completely emotionless
Treating people arrogantly
Someone who gives Allah's rights that are upon him
The perfect man: The Prophet (saw)
His character was The Qur'an
Also look at the community around him
Three Qualities of Manhood
Strength
One that stems from modesty.
Why?
It takes strength to stay true your principles especially when around others who don't have modesty
True strength is to be able to control your nafs
Modesty
is the ability to control yourself
Common view
Power
Physical capability
Beauty
Not physical kind
Beautiful character
Stems from
mercy
Truth
Related to
justice
It is very difficult to accept criticism
Need to accept the fact that you are wrong
Effects of becoming a man
تكليف
You are considered a responsible adult before Allah (swt)