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7 Powerful Behaviors To Stop Absorbing Other Peoples' Energy - http…
- Discover Your Unresoved issues
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Start live from the inside out , and start gaining more clarity
Start taking a look within yourself and start repairing your unresolved issue, and start healing wounds to become complete, and start reintegrating the fragmented part of yourself to become a greatest version of yourself
You don’t have to focus on what other people are doing. You have to focus on things that you have to repair within yourself that other people highlight in certain situations and circumstances you face in life.
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- You are not Responsible for Others
You have no control over how other people respond to you, how they act to you and how they feel towards you
In doing so you free yourself by the burden of carrying someone else’s behaviour on your shoulders. Therefore, you don’t absorb other people’s energy. It’s nothing personal.
- Find Your Own Environment
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The environment alters your mood. How you see yourself governs what you become. You have to take 100% responsibility for where you place yourself. More than ever, when you place yourself in an environment which complements your own energy, the magic starts to happens
What you see with your eyes and what you have inside of yourself becomes a reflection of how you feel. Once you have harmony within yourself, you stop absorbing other people’s energy and you start imprinting your energy on the world around you
Nobody can enter your dominion without an invitation. You attract every single person into your life.
We are consciously or unconsciously inviting people into our lives, and not absorbing other people’s energy is to remind yourself of this every single day.
You have the power within to choose whether or not you want to invite a certain person in your temple, which is essentially within yourself.
- Let Go on the need to be validated
You don’t need external validation. You only need support. Many times along our lives we search for external approval, which is why you start absorbing other people’s energy. Because you feel frustrated if you are not getting it.
To stop absorbing other people’s energy, you have to stay true to yourself 100% and allow your authenticity to flourish and blossom without other people’s opinions.
Once you start taking action and remain focused on your activity; even if people say “hurtful” things about you or your work, you are not even concerned. Why? Because you love what you are doing.
The world is all about contrast. Contrast is essential. Once you surrender to contrast and understand that we need friction, you also understand that there are always going to be people that will get on your nerves, unless you start changing your perspective and realize that these people are also serving a role in the world.
Just remind yourself to connect with those who remind you who you are. This helps you to stop absorbing harmful energy and to start absorbing more positive energy.
When you wake up in the morning, you only have so much energy. Throughout the day you use that energy by giving it to people and things around you, until the end of the day where there’s almost nothing left and you feel tired and you go to sleep again
What you have to understand is that some people fill you with energy and some people drain you of energy. The people that drain you of energy are also called “energy vampires”.
They can be your colleagues, your friends or even close family members. An energy vampire is someone who uses your energy to survive.
One of the important things to do is to really identify whether they are temporary energy vampires or inherently energy vampires.But if someone is inherently (permanently) an energy vampire, then it’s really important to take note of that.
When you pay someone attention, you are essentially giving them energy. You have to change your focus to stop absorbing other people’s energy.