Specific relationships, marriage- Elizabeth is unlike any other woman in society at the time, for she believed in a love marriage. This is why she turned down Mr. Darcy (the first time), and Mr. Collins. Unlike Elizabeth, Charlotte Lucas wanted to get married as soon as possible because she was getting too old to find someone to marry. This is why she quickly accepted the proposal from Mr. Collins. Lydia is very immature and not at all ready for marriage, which is why she ended up running away with Mr. Wickham (who she knows nothing about), and eloping with him. Jane and Mr. Bingley have a genuine connection, and the two of them love each other, despite what family members have to say about them.