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Self Concept (Present Self (continued struggle with mental health, bounce…
Self Concept
Present Self
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bounce back and forth between just living the life "I have to" and thinking about "why am I doing this if it is not making me happy"
strong willed personality continues, have difficult time getting along with authority figures ex: coaches and parents
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figuring out my own identity-what do I want to do in my life, what people do I want to continue relationships with
interests in psychology, gender studies
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I am observant, and do not like to jump into decisions before thinking it through first, and similarly lead more with thinking than feeling because I like when my opinions are evidence-based
in certain situations, I find myself to be very assertive, and locked into my beliefs, but my emotions are often all over the place and change pretty quickly
I have a pretty even amount of prospecting and judging, sometimes I am quick to develop opinions, and in others I desire to have more information and develop ideas overtime
Future/possible selves
college at scripps-->make a difference, learn something meaningful that sets me up for a good career
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happily married, cute kids and raise them very different from the way I was raised
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create my own life for myself, away from parents
be proud of what I have done, help others, use my voice for the better
working towards a more internal locus of control, while understanding that there are still things that can occur outside my control
Past Self
raised by authoritarian parents and did not have a very close relationship with them, they stressed excellence in school and keeping busy with extracurriculars, nagged, hovered--> frustration, stubborn, angy
depression, anxiety, OCD-did not get support until high school
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perfectionist attitude, compare myself to siblings
best friend 1st-7th grade has permissive parents, after middle school she was kicked out for drug use and that defined for me that I was a "good kid" on the right path and I was not to mess up
dealt with friends who were not there for me, and never shared what my home life was like
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