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Positive Relationship (What makes Good Relationships ? (5 Factor Model…

- - - - Inense longing
      - joy of emotional union
      - sexual fulfilment
    - - affection
      - friendship
      - companionship
      - long-term commitment
  - - - Eros
        The romantic (eg. Romeo)
      - Ludus
        The player (flirtatious)
      - Storge
        The Best Friend-Lover
      - Mania
        The infatuation (obsessive)
      - Pragma
        The practical lover (settle down)
      - Agape
        The selfless lover (altruistic)
- - - - Evaluate other relationship they had or observed to compare attractiveness
    - - Look at alternatives to current relationship and is leaving worth the cost ?
- - - - Bids for attention
        Successful :check:
        Unsuccessful :forbidden:
      - comm
        strategies🙌
        
        Supportive 💑
        
        Laugh
        together 😂
        
        No -ve
        comments 😝
        
        Agree about
        topics 😍
- - - - Communication
        Style
        
        Stonewalling
        extreme withdrawal to punish the other
        Repair attempts = tough (shared history of couple written negatively)
        
        Negative reciprocity
        negative comment --> negative response (cycle)
        
        Demand-withdrawal pattern
        criticism > sense of contempt from other > defensiveness > withdrawal