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Jordan Peterson - How to really listen to someone (How to really listen?…
Jordan Peterson - How to really listen to someone
How to really listen?
Out of 50 things you hear try to find at list one that you don't know
Wrong orientation:
aiming to just prove that you are right
impress a person
other egoistical aims
Ask questions
Proper orientation:
The place we end up after the conversation will be better than where we started
Before replying restate what you've heard until the other person will agree with your restatement
Why really listen?
Not listening leads to thinking only of what to say next
At best you are the same as before, may be more confident
You're not helpful
It's hard to find a person that really listens
Science
It's proven that both of participants of the conversation will be physiologically healthier
Understanding with a person, not about him can bring about major changes in personality
Relationships
Only when you listen can the conversation be therapeutic
Healthy relationship must be therapeutic
Two brains are better then one
If you really listen people tend to tell you a lot
If the conversation is dull then you're not listening